Advice.

[Boomer]

Hey guys this is a bit serious. since COVID-19 is happening, the government is giving 500 dollars and 12k dollars to families all over the United States. My mom and dad are divorced, and my dad pays taxes for us, so he received the money. My mom has filed a restraining order and stuff because he won’t give the money. I’m really worried because I might never see my dad again. These last 3 years of my life have been horrible i Don’t know what to do anymore. since divorce I have been in a bad household my mom did try committing suicide once. since I moved to the new house I’m in, thing have gotten better but now this is happening. Please tell me what I can do to maybe convince my dad or maybe get through this

 

[Caitlyn2]

Hey guys this is a bit serious. since COVID-19 is happening, the government is giving 500 dollars and 12k dollars to families all over the United States. My mom and dad are divorced, and my dad pays taxes for us, so he received the money. My mom has filed a restraining order and stuff because he won’t give the money. I’m really worried because I might never see my dad again. These last 3 years of my life have been horrible i Don’t know what to do anymore. since divorce I have been in a bad household my mom did try committing suicide once. since I moved to the new house I’m in, thing have gotten better but now this is happening. Please tell me what I can do to maybe convince my dad or maybe get through this

You can't really control what happens with a restraining order.(as far as I know) As a minor whoever has custody can file for one for you, so if your mom gets one she can get one for you as well.

There is not much you can do to fix the problem with your parents. you shouldn't try to get involved either its best that you focus on yourself and try your best to make yourself happy.

 

[Luna]

Life get's better trust me.

 

[Gary Coleman]

I know someone who had a lot of rough family drama and shit like this and she moved to a homeless shelter just to be on her own and not get involved in it all

 

[Arata Winters]

Hey Boomer I know we don't talk a lot or really even know each other but what I would do in this situation is just tell both your parents how you feel and what you want to come out of this, if things keep going for how they are planned try and keep contact with both of your parents whether its through texting, planned visit days, whatever works the best and know that when you are 18 you can always visit and see your Dad again. Something that has helped me with a lot of my problems especially problems that come from family is having someone unrelated to it to talk to, this can be a close friend who you know wont say anything or a therapist/school counselor. Finally talk to your Mom about seeing a therapist or getting some sort of professional help and let her know that you are there for her. I wish you the best of luck of Boomer and never give up because even when it seems the worst it will get better.

 

[Boomer]

Hey Boomer I know we don't talk a lot or really even know each other but what I would do in this situation is just tell both your parents how you feel and what you want to come out of this, if things keep going for how they are planned try and keep contact with both of your parents whether its through texting, planned visit days, whatever works the best and know that when you are 18 you can always visit and see your Dad again. Something that has helped me with a lot of my problems especially problems that come from family is having someone unrelated to it to talk to, this can be a close friend who you know wont say anything or a therapist/school counselor. Finally talk to your Mom about seeing a therapist or getting some sort of professional help and let her know that you are there for her. I wish you the best of luck of Boomer and never give up because even when it seems the worst it will get better.

thanks I don’t know how I can talk since my mom is restricting me of my phone

 

[francisbaud]

I hope your situation improves quickly, it must be difficult to live through this

 

[Oompft/Kiggs]

I will adopt you and become your new father.

 

[Oompft/Kiggs]

But deadass, just work your ass off at whatever it is that you love. Try and get a job if you can, and if it’s tough for you I can help. I once helped get BOBO a job as a real estate salesman, so if you need any help at all, doesn’t have to be just with a job, don’t hesitate to ask me or anyone else.

 

[Boomer]

But deadass, just work your ass off at whatever it is that you love. Try and get a job if you can, and if it’s tough for you I can help. I once helped get BOBO a job as a real estate salesman, so if you need any help at all, doesn’t have to be just with a job, don’t hesitate to ask me or anyone else.

Thanks man. Add me on discord or something

 

[Boomer]

But deadass, just work your ass off at whatever it is that you love. Try and get a job if you can, and if it’s tough for you I can help. I once helped get BOBO a job as a real estate salesman, so if you need any help at all, doesn’t have to be just with a job, don’t hesitate to ask me or anyone else.

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